Everything You Need For a Perfect Friendsgiving
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Coming to the end of November means one thing… holiday parties! While everyone’s gearing up for Christmas, I love the humble Thanksgiving holiday, or, it’s alternative, Friendsgiving. While you might not feel like celebrating at the moment, Friendsgiving could be just what you need to get your joy back in time for Christmas. Read on for my top tips on how to host the perfect 2020 Friendsgiving - whether in person, or remote.
What Is Friendsgiving?
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Let’s face it - Thanksgiving didn’t really make it to Australia. While I miss the holiday season back in the US, I was so glad I found an alternative here - Friendsgiving! Friendsgiving is an alternative (or addition) to Thanksgiving, typically celebrated at the end of November. If you’re having a traditional Thanksgiving, Friendsgiving can be an informal version amongst friends the weekend before or after your traditional event. But if you’ve never had a traditional Thanksgiving, Friendsgiving can take its place - the perfect Aussie holiday mashup!
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Traditionally Thanksgiving is about taking a moment to be grateful for the good things in life, and reflecting on the past year. It really is all about gratitude - the gift-giving and consumerism side of things is saved for Christmas (or the Black Friday Sales after Thanksgiving ;)), and the focus here is on food, loved ones, and being thankful. After all that 2020 has thrown at us, taking a moment to be thankful for the good things sounds like a great idea to me. For Aussies, Friendsgiving is just that, and for our American friends, we know you love a good holiday - so why not incorporate two?
How To Get Started
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For some people, Friendsgiving could be the perfect opportunity to get together with your friends before doing Christmas with the fam. For others, a virtual Friendsgiving may be in order - and there’s no reason it can’t be just as fun! Remember the goal here is to be thankful - no moping about lockdowns allowed! Instead pick a time for all invited to jump on to Zoom and share some time together. You can still enjoy decorating and eating good food, and go around the call to say what you’re thankful for. Even if COVID’s got you down, this is the perfect excuse to be joyful, even if just for one night.
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Ok, let’s face it - I’m a holiday decor junkie! Decorating for the holidays is such a magical time, and I love that your Friendsgiving theme can be whatever you choose. For those able to celebrate in person, you can’t go past a good tablescape. Extravagantly decorated dining tables seem to be reserved for weddings in Australia, but there’s no reason you can’t get a little fancy with the Friendsgiving decor. Pick a colour scheme, light some candles and have fun setting up an elegant tablescape. For those in Australia, an outdoor venue is the perfect choice with these hot summer nights - and just think how pretty fairy lights and candles will look in the garden!
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If you’re hosting a virtual Thanksgiving or Friendsgiving, there’s definitely still options to decorate. Encourage each of your guests to sit at their dining table and include some decorations. It doesn’t have to be difficult - a few candles to set the mood, the fancy cutlery that comes out on special occasions, or even some flowers from the garden could be all you need to help the online event feel a little special. If you really want to encourage decorating, you could decide on a mutual theme for all guests to use, or have a competition to vote on the best decor. Remember that it’s about having fun, so make sure it’s something enjoyable rather than being a hassle.
The Friendsgiving Meal
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Time for the best part… food! If there’s one thing I miss about fall in the US, it’s the sweets that come with it. Yes, I know pumpkin spice lattes are ‘basic’ but that doesn’t mean they aren’t delicious! I love the sweetly-spiced desserts that come with Thanksgiving, from pumpkin pie to pecan pie - I’ll have a slice of both! If you’re unused to these treats in Australia, I definitely recommend giving them a try. You can find some great recipes online for traditional Thanksgiving desserts, or hit up Costco for a store-bought version (they’re still good, but homemade is pretty yummy!).